Are You The Trick Or The Treat? | Your Man and Your Money

Are You The Trick Or The Treat? | Your Man and Your Money

Halloween is coming and everybody has on a mask . . . Make sure you are the treat, and not the trick.
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Your Man and Your Money w/ MC Lyte Throwback: Should You Cosign In A Relationship? 02:54

Common Sense Is Not Common In Relationships: 05:01

Your Man and Your Money w/ MC Lyte Throwback: Should You Split the Bills? 08:01
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You are the trick if:

– your boo is acting like a who, what, when, where, and why? In other words they are secretive.

– there are unexplained absences that don’t make any sense whatsoever when they are finally explained – use your common sense and if you don’t have any, use the common sense of someone you trust (everybody doesn’t have common sense; it’s okay — get help and don’t be the recipient of the consequences of not having any).

– money is funny and change is strange – the person never has any money, can’t buy you anything or contribute to the bills, but they always have new stuff!

You are the treat if:

Transparency exists. You know what’s going on and if you don’t, you can ask questions.  If you are afraid to ask questions, that’s a problem.

Urgency is in the air. When the person does something wrong, they are eager to return to peace.

You feel good.  The person is adding to your life instead of draining it.

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